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How about you? What determines the right person you should marry? I know you have an answer which is of course right for you due to the fact that you believe in it but the consequences after marriage will prove whether your criteria are right or wrong.
On my side when I was in primary school I had a criteria that the woman I am going to marry must be tall in height, thin, black-skinned and beautiful that is it, and I searched for such a women as I was adult just to discover that all the criteria couldn't make our relationship happier as I expected. How about you?This scenario of mine made me to believe that there is a criteria I have skipped which is very important and that is what I want to share with you now for I believe this must be the universal principle which can work to anybody who is going to apply it.Today I met a couple who were cruelly arguing on what determines different events in human life. A woman believes that everything which people faces is God’s plan hence if someone is killed while stealing, abusing drugs etc is God’s plan the same to if a person dies of normal diseases, car accident, eaten by lion in the park or taken by floods, so her conclusion was; a human being cannot control what should happen in his/her life when it is to happen, that is it. On the other side a husband believes that everything is the result of cause and effect, human beings causes a lot of things which happens in their life hence they can just control lots of them not to happen. He gave an example that a thief knows that he/she cannot be killed if she don’t steal so why stealing? Any way this argument made this couple to stiff misunderstanding to the extent of not speaking to each other for a while.What is your philosophy compared to a person you want to marry?To me this is the principle number one to consider before you select a person to marry. Regardless his /her appearances look first whether you are sharing the paradigm and perspective of looking at things and defining life events. If you match, it will be easy to have constructive arguments in your future marriage and this should be happening as you are searching and observing your future wife or husband. Imagine you marry a person who believes that whenever you face financial challenge you are supposed to run to a church and pray 24 hours just to receive a miracle while you believe in working harder to accumulate finance. Now think of how you are going to discuss the solution of your challenge, you must end up in unresolved, stupid conflict.Simply look for a person who defines life the way you define it, it might be challenging to get the person whom you share a philosophy 100% but if she/he is at least 95% he/she can easily be transformed in time before marriage. But if the transformation rejects completely, believe me you are going to lose a lasting happiness in your future in case you get married, a good thing is that there is a person whom you share philosophy out there, take time to observe and interact with him/ her before you propose for marriage.I am not saying that...Marring a person you are sharing the same philosophy in life will make you not conflicting or arguing, the point is, by sharing philosophy you will always have constructive arguments, you will easily resolve your conflicts in a constructive way and you will always end up your arguments with common understanding conclusion. This way happiness will last in your marriage and this is what you actually need.You see now!Beauty, appearance, money and other external factors are important but not the first things to consider and determine who you should marry. Work hard to discover the internal part of the man’s or woman’s mindset before going outside her/him.
I hope these few insights will help you a lot.All the best!Erick Chrispin
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2015 is right here, do you know that this can still be 2014 only if you do not change your habit around your prospects? if you real want to mean that this is a new year you must be new also. You now need to sit down, reflect and evaluate your 2014, look back on the goals and objectives you had and what you have achieved so far. By doing this process expect to find some areas to improve from your last year's goals, make them your new year's goals and set up a strategy on how you are going to work on them in 2015.As you think on the new year strategy keep evaluating your 2014 strategy, if in some ways it didn't work then rethink newly so that you come up with a new working strategy for 2015, I am saying this due to fact that using the same failed strategy assures you same results in 2015.My emphasis again is that you do not need to come up with new brands of goals in 2015 just draw goals from 2014 goals so that you prolong the growth of those goals. It is not brilliant to come up with something very new which is not connected to what you started in 2014 if you didn't achieve fully. even though you managed to achieve it, still you need to treat it as a foundation for your 2015 goals.With this advice of mine I have prepared few questions for you to ask as you make up your new year 2015.PERSONAL EVALUATION GUIDING QUESTIONS· What was the most fun I had this past year?· What did I lean this past year?· What did I change for good this past year?· What bad habits did I pick up this past year?· What books had the biggest impact on me this past year?THE WAY FORWARD· What important projects would I like to complete this next year?· What am I looking forward to in my personal life this next year?· What skills would I like to sharpen this next year?· What books will help me the most this next year?· How can I increase my service to others this next year?· How much would I like to earn this next year?Succeeding to answer all these questions effectively you are going to realize a new personal vision and mission of your life and next year is going to be a year with full of success to you but only if you are going to work on your entire mission you have discovered through this exercise. Remember to write down each and every answer you are coming up with.Please I hope to see you back and share your success with others through this blog next time and may be next year.God bless you more.Bye!
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